As part of The Breakthrough Letter, every week I send out a short email with one idea, one suggestion, and one resource to help you break through your breakup and create a new possibility for love, either with your ex or someone new.
Here’s this week’s edition. Enjoy.
Today’s Idea:
Contrary to common misconceptions, true vulnerability is not about whining and showing weakness. It’s about expressing your authentic self, which includes your feelings, desires, and insecurities. And then accepting whatever the other party’s response is to that expression.
Embracing this kind of vulnerability can profoundly influence the dynamics with an ex or a new love interest. More specifically, it often creates a deeper connection, enhances trust, and significantly boosts attraction, as it shows courage and confidence.
Today’s Suggestion:
Consider opening up about your feelings, desires, or insecurities the next time you communicate with someone you’re interested in.
This doesn’t mean overloading them with your emotions but sharing something genuine about yourself that you would typically keep guarded. It could be as simple as expressing your excitement about a new project or as deep as sharing a fear or dream about the future.
Notice how this authenticity changes the interaction and potentially increases your connection, trust, and attractiveness.
Today’s Resource:
Vulnerability: The Key To Rekindling Your Relationship — some cool ideas and practical tips on how to safely open up and why this can lead to more fulfilling and resilient relationships.
Note: although the article is tailored to people who want to rekindle an ex-relationship, you can apply the same ideas and tips to just about any relationship.
New This Week:
Nothing much. I took a short vacation. But I’m back now, so get ready for more weekly articles and YouTube videos.
And in about two to four weeks, I’ll finish updating my online courses with new and improved content. So stay tuned for that.
As always, feel free to reply to this email and let me know what you think. While I can’t respond to everyone, I do read everything.
Until next time,
Max Jancar
Get a weekly email with one idea, suggestion, and resource to help you break through your breakup and create a new possibility for love (with your ex or someone new).