I’m a blogger, author and entrepreneur. I write advice on getting back with an ex that is unconventional, self-improvement-based and filled with unbridled and often shocking honesty — a.k.a., ex-back advice that doesn’t suck.
Till now, I have been published and/or featured in The Good Man Project, Thrive Global and a handful of Medium Publications. Most notably, BeYourself, Illumination, Better Advice, The Writers Blokke, and Better Humans.
I started my biz early 2017 as a pickup and dating coach for men. I also began blogging at that time. In fact, my previous blog (relationshipmasterymj.com) hosted over 50 long-form articles and two downloadable booklets. (Proof)
In late 2017, I wrote my first 300+ page book on pickup, dating, and self-development. However, I removed this book from Amazon due to lousy writing and immature ideas, but here is the link if you still wish to go over it.
In 2019, I expanded my niche and made my way into the marriage/relationship recovery niche. There, I helped guys (and later also women) re-attract their uninterested partners and ex-partners.
At this point, I also wrote another book that taught people how to make their relationships last. This one, you can still find on Amazon.
In late 2019 or around early 2020, I realized that my brand was too generic, which limited my growth. And my articles were a mix of mostly below-average and average pieces. Therefore, I rebranded, deleted most of my old works, and started from square one.
But this time, I had a new, more unique vision for my website – a vision you’re seeing unfold at this very moment. Let’s explore how it might benefit you.
About This Website
I’ve tailored all the content on my website to the people who recently came out of a breakup and want to re-attract their ex. If there’s one way to describe my work, it’s unconventional.
It teaches a new way of re-attracting an ex — one devoid of tactics, hacks, and deceit; one devoid of encouragements to chase after them; one devoid of the predatory and manipulative marketing the ex-back industry is known for.
My work focuses on helping you re-attract your ex through honesty, vulnerability, and self-improvement — through facing and confronting your own emotions, values, and beliefs to create real permanent change. The kind of change your ex, or just about anyone else, won’t be able to overlook.
And here’s my dirty little secret: this whole website is a trojan horse. My hopes are that once you’ve digested enough recovery and self-improvement advice, you’ll be such a changed person that you’ll realize that getting back with an ex may very well be a mistake. Because let’s face it… it often is a mistake.
If these ideas appeal to you, head to my Best Articles Page, where you can familiarize yourself with my best work and the overall brand message.
When I was 16, my first long-term girlfriend dumped me due to my neediness. Then, in the span of a few months, it got broken up a few more times for the same reason. Naturally, I only got more emotionally fucked up as a result. I began to fester feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness, crippling anxiety, narcissism, and above all, codependency.
Oh yeah, did I mentioned I spent months chasing after my ex-girlfriends and trying to get them back? Yeah… I was that guy. A lot of readers ask me nowadays what’s my gripe with the ex-back gurus like Brad Browning, Chris Seiter, Clay Andrews, WMXA and so forth. Well… I bought all of their “get your ex back ” products.
First, none of them worked. Second, they’re filled with the most scummy and unethical ways of re-attracting an ex. And finally, they were marketed in the scummiest and most unethical ways you can imagine. For these reasons, I obviously started hating the gurus and made it a part of my life’s mission to expose them and call them out on their bullshit.
Anyhow, after years of self-improvement and therapy, I got better despite my heaps of heartbreaks, and people started noticing my improved mood and confidence. They also started noticing my thriving love life, which followed soon after my recovery. Now, some of these people — mostly men at the start — asked me to help them get the same results. That’s where it all began for me.
Until now, I wrote three full books and helped numerous men and women from all around the world with their relationships. Specifically, I’ve helped people:
- Move on from a breakup.
- Get back with an ex.
- Find love.
- Get laid.
- Turn around a dying relationship.
So yeah, I’ve been all over the place. However, even though I know a lot about dating, relationships, breakups, and whatnot, I want to stress one crucial point: I am NOT your guru.
I’m not going to go around like every other online entrepreneur and declare how I’m some breakup or love expert. I’m really not. I’m just like you. I poop, I sleep in, and I fuck things up all the time. I don’t know everything, and I’m still learning to this day.
On a final note, most of the concepts and ideas I write about aren’t my own. They are simply pieces of information I’ve discovered after hours of reading and researching. I just try to simplify what I’ve learned and then communicate the information in an easy-to-understand way.