I’m Max, a twenty-something-year-old from Slovenia. And for 5+ years, this website was my full-time job.
I wrote articles, created books, built courses, answered emails, worked with coaching clients, and tried to help people through one of the most painful moments of their lives: heartbreak.
More specifically, I wrote about how to heal and grow from a breakup and get into the best position to either re-attract their ex or attract someone completely new.
Over the years, my work reached millions of people, helped thousands of customers, and gave me a strange little corner of the internet I never expected to build.
And now, that chapter is finished.
I no longer actively run this business. I’m not selling books, courses, or anything else here anymore. I’m not taking on clients. I’m not creating any new breakup content.
However, I have decided to leave the site and all its content (free and paid) online as a free archive. Because too many people supported my work over the years for me to just pull the plug.
What Makes My Work Different
I always tried to write breakup advice for people who hate breakup advice. If there’s one way to describe my work, it’s unconventional. Many of my approaches to dealing with breakups and their aftermath are at odds with the traditional ones.
For those who want to heal and grow from the breakup: my approach rejects the usual “feel-good” fluff: no running from pain, no forced positivity, no indulging in unrealistic self-talk and other “brouhaha bullshit.” Instead, I advocate for a path of learning from pain and negativity, accepting occasional unhappiness, and using empirically supported methods that actually work.
For those who want to re-attract an ex or attract someone new: my approach is based not on tricks, gimmicks, games, techniques, manipulation, fake behaviors, etc. But rather on honesty, vulnerability, and investing in oneself — the things that make you attractive without you trying to act attractive.
That being said, that doesn’t mean I was some guru. I wasn’t. I’m not a therapist, psychologist, or certified anything. I never even went to college. I’m just a guy who read, researched, experimented, thought deeply, wrote a lot, and tried to explain complicated emotional problems in a way normal people could understand. Usually with some toilet humor thrown in.
So don’t take what I write seriously. At least not too seriously.
Where To Start
The best place to start is still with my articles. You can also listen to them, since they include an audio version, or watch the videos embedded in several of them.
And of course, if you’d like to go deeper, you can download my full product archive. The free bundle includes all the books and courses I used to sell.
Get In Touch
Want to comment on something? Ask me a question? I still answer a handful of emails each week, genuinely out of the goodness of my heart.
To get in touch, please use the following email: [email protected]. And don’t bother trying to reach out on my social media. I never respond to DM’s.
And if you’d like to see what I’m doing now and what I’m building next, subscribe to my Substack.