Learn what influences exes to come back, 32 signs your ex will come back, why focusing on these signs is unhealthy, and what to do instead.
Learn three ways you can find yourself after a breakup and get clear on exactly who you are, what you value, and how to move forward.
Part warning, part soothing balm: a short story about the ridiculous lengths some people go when trying to rekindle their relationship.
When you're trying to get your ex back, regardless of when you broke up, giving them a proper and lengthy break from you is key.
Learn how to deal with uncertainty effectively and grow into a more resilient and less shitty person despite your breakup.
Few relationship questions are as polarizing as if you can be friends with an ex after a breakup. Well, here's my best attempt at answering.
In my opinion, a better alternative to traditional journaling. Read this guide to learn how to leverage it to speed up your breakup recovery.
A story about my fuckups when I was trying to get back with my ex and how learning from those fuckups led me to become a less shitty human.
"Everything happens for a reason." You've probably heard the phrase before. Well, I don't buy into it. It's bullshit. And here's why.
Many think it's unhealthy to seek validation. But that's not true. It is healthy (even normal) if you're seeking it from the right place.
Chasing your ex doesn't make them come back. It only pushes them farther away. Therefore, to get them back, you first have to let them go.
Learn what anxiety is, where it comes from, how it screws you over, and how to overcome it so you can be more confident and less fearful.
Learn why your ex is being hot and cold, whether it's a good sign or not, and how to deal with it so they become more affectionate.
Learn why the signs your ex is in a rebound relationship may not mean anything and what you should do instead of focusing on them.
Your ex isn't gaming or testing you. They don't want you to suffer. They don't have GIGS. They're not confused. They just don't like you.
Jealousy is something most people who want their ex back feel. And it's a pretty valid feeling to have. Learn 8 ways to overcome it.
Learn about the Phantom Ex and Soulmate Syndromes and how to overcome them so you don't remain forever heartbroken and disappointed in love.
In a world constantly promoting positivity and happiness, it's refreshing to have the benefits of sadness come into the spotlight.
A guide on how to tell your ex you still love them and want them back, and stop pretending you're okay with how things are between you now.
Most people never take responsibility for their breakup, and so they suffer perpetually. Learn how to take it, and break the cycle.
Here are 16 signs your ex is pretending to be over you, even though they secretly want you back and how to respond appropriately.
Anyone who's thought about it for more than 30 seconds will realize that getting sexual with their ex quickly is moral and healthy, even sexy.
Discover the surprising science of why breakups hurt even though you've wanted your relationship to end all along.
Discover 16 signs your ex is never coming back, why focusing on them lowers your chances of reconciliation, and what to do instead.
Why did your ex move on so fast? What does it mean? How can you best respond? Here's everything you need to know if your ex moved on quickly.
Think about this: why ever mend a relationship with someone who is unable, unwilling, or unenthusiastic to help you mend it as well?
Breakups suck, but there are many worse things that could happen to you. So be grateful a breakup is the only thing on your plate.
Here are 15 biases that make you overestimate your ex’s overall attraction and make you want to rekindle things when you perhaps shouldn't.
Learn all about the 5 stages of a rebound relationship, rebound psychology, and the 3 ways everyone misunderstands them.
should I contact my ex who dumped me? In short, no. You probably shouldn't reach out. And here's why and what to do instead.
Has your ex left you for someone else? Here are 4 weird truths about it, undressed and gutted, in all their beautiful sadness.
The bullshit behind the 5 love languages, uncovered and exposed, by some random blogger you should totally take super-duper seriously.
Be yourself is terrible advice for most. What you should do instead is work toward becoming the best, most attractive person you can be.
Getting your ex to stop ignoring you has more to do with letting them go and surrendering to pain than trying to change their behavior.
Learn how to get revenge on your ex and ruin their life in 5 steps. Yes, it is possible. All it takes is some willpower and a cunning plan.
Being more masculine or more feminine won't help you get your ex back faster. Sexual polarity is vastly misunderstood and overrated.
The idea that you need to be indifferent toward your ex to get them back is not only impossible but even toxic. Here's what to do instead.
Learn what really makes someone attractive and capable of permanently getting back together with their ex and what sabotages their efforts.
The post that changed my life.
Learn the 5 stages of getting back together with your ex and how to leverage them to mend your relationship faster.
You can inspire, educate, and even challenge your ex to change, but you can never make or force them change.
A life purpose is one of the bigger determinants of a person's attractiveness, resilience, and happiness. Here's my way of finding it.
Most "re-attraction science" techniques are logical placebos for creating emotional realities; ways for people to cope with emotional issues.
Learn why you dream about your ex every night, what does it mean, and how to stop dreaming about them so you can function normally again.
Having a good attitude is crucial when trying to get an ex back. Here's what it looks like, what it doesn't look like, and how to develop it.
My personal philosophy. I'm happier and more resilient than ever because of it. Maybe you will get the same results if you adopt it.
Discover 5 fallacies that kill relationships and learn how to manage them to boost your chances of cultivating lasting love with someone.
Learn three powerful healing modalities that will turbocharge your breakup recovery and help you feel great again faster than anything else.
Learn how the popular advice of "fake it until you make it" can backfire when you're trying to get your ex back.
Follow the steps in this article and you'll feel better about your breakup, regardless of the amount of suffering it brings.
Whether a man or woman, your ex doesn't communicate differently. Communication has, in fact, nothing to do with gender.
Learn what self-esteem is and isn't, what it helps with, and 6 therapy-approved tips on rebuilding (or building) it after a breakup.
You probably won’t be able to forget their wrongs committed against you anytime soon. But what you can do is forgive your ex. Here’s how.
Just realised, "my ex blocked me on everything"? Unsure what to do? How to get unblocked? Is it even worth trying? Let's investigate.
Learn five reasons why you should always treat breakup-related psychological stages as nothing more than a personality test or horoscope.
Here are 5 of the most common misunderstandings or myths about emotions and the truths you should believe instead.
Breakup pain is a fact of life for virtually everyone. But there are ways to grow from it. In fact, here are 7 of them, backed by science.
Going no contact with a fearful-avoidant is tricky. But this guide will simplify everything so you can mend your relationship faster.
You don’t necessarily deserve anything after your breakup, good or bad. Instead, here’s a simpler view on breakups to adopt.
Learn what tests are, how they look, the signs your ex is testing you, whether those signs are real or not, how to deal with tests, and more.
Stop trying to figure out the hidden (or not so hidden) meaning behind your ex's words and focus on their actions to gauge their attraction.
Pain is good. Too much love leads to misery. Time doesn't heal all wounds, and more. Learn 10 life lessons from a heartbroken fuckboy.
Before one can heal from a breakup, they need to decide that that's something worth doing — they need to overcome their crisis of hope.
A deep dive into four essential areas of compatibility that determine whether or not you and your ex are meant to be for each other.
Discover 18 common post-breakup mistakes people make that obliterate their chances of ever getting back with their ex.
It’s normal to feel angry after a breakup. It's a key stage to recovery. Here are 8 ways to deal with your anger after a breakup effectively.
Learn how getting an ex back is often purposefully drenched in artificial complexity and 7 powerful ways to decomplicate the whole thing.
If you're wondering "does my ex miss me?" the answer is yes. But does them missing you make it any easier to get them back? Not really.
Is your rekindled relationship healthy or not? Get your answer here, with this eye-opening guide to cultivating healthy relationships.
Learn the science of habit formation and destruction, as well as building and maintaining healthy habits and breaking unhealthy ones.
For those of you who are stressing about getting your ex back, a few simple words of wisdom to shift your perspective.
Learn 10 simple and effective, therapy-proven tips on how to forget your ex and get your life back on track.
Discover 6 powerful solutions for when you can't sleep after a breakup straight from a retired biohacker and sleep and productivity nerd.
Learn everything there is to know about the contact rule — the best way to recover from your breakup and get your ex back.
Learn 6 principles on how to get your ex back the right way and what it takes to cultivate a healthy and lasting relationship with them.
Learn how to never get over a breakup and become a perpetually heartbroken and miserable person. It's easy if you put your mind to it!
Learn how attachment theory influences relationships and your breakup experience and how to leverage it to recover and grow faster.
My biggest discoveries about love. Hopefully, they'll deepen your understanding of it, and help you avoid some common relationship downfalls.
A rebound relationship is not always a bad thing. Usually, it is a great thing — in the short and long term, and no matter how it unravels.
Breaking up hurts, but why does it happen? Why did your relationship fail in the first place? Discover 18 reasons in this article.
True vulnerability is key when you're trying to get back with your ex. Learn what it is and what it can and can't do for you.
Trying too hard to feel better and reach your post-breakup goals usually has the opposite effect — and the backwards law proves this.
Getting your ex back and keeping them gets so much easier if you just learn how to set and keep proper and healthy personal boundaries.
Learn about a simple solution to getting back with your ex when you, despite being broken up, still act like a couple.
Your ex's attraction isn't blocked. They just aren't attracted to you anymore. Here's my reasoning (and critique) of the concept.
Polarization is a concept from pickup and dating literature you can use to get your ex back in a more natural, stress-free, and mature way.
Discover 6 proven principles on how to stop feeling lonely after a breakup and start enjoying your solitude so you can recover faster.
Learn the truth about the "how to get your ex back" gurus: how they sell fake miracle cures, exploit vulnerabilities, and give shoddy advice.
A breakup will stifle your productivity. But there are certain universal and tried and tested principles you can follow to boost it.
Here are six simple yet harsh truths about getting an ex back that no one tells you about. For the most part, because they don't sell.
Wondering why your ex wants to sleep with you? Find out 12 reasons why, as well as a game plan on how to respond under every context.
Many people feel worthless after a breakup. But these feelings don't have to be permanent. You can overcome them. Here's how.
Discover 5 practical and no-fluff ways on how to love yourself after your breakup to heal your broken heart and feel great again.
Were you in a toxic relationship or are your biases tricking you? Get your answer here, with the 12 warning signs of a toxic relationship.
Your ex is not your therapist, nor should they be. And if you make them one, you'll be rejected in no time and never get them back.
I’ve noticed lots of people making unconscious covert contracts with their exes, and it’s a big problem that I want to shed light on.
I know you want to get go back to your ex and rekindle your relationship. Well, you probably shouldn't. And here are 4 solid reasons why.
A breakdown of the stages of dumpers remorse or regret and their psychology. Learn what they are, how they work, and the timelines for each.
Getting back with your ex is much easier if you're an attractive motherfucker worth coming back to. Learn what it takes to become one.
Learn to understand neediness and manage it better (even overcome it) so it doesn't sabotage your attempts at getting back with your ex.
Texting your ex is never a good idea. It may work for a few, but fail for the vast majority. Here are 10 reasons why it's a bad idea.
A complete guide to dating after a breakup — whether you want to date casually or find true and lasting love.
The more you try to rid yourself of suffering, the more powerful it grows. The only way out is through acceptance. Here’s how this looks like.
Discover 20 brilliant books to read after a breakup that will speed up your recovery and help you become a better person.
Discover 30 science-based, practical and proven ways on how to get over your ex and regain control over your emotions, identity, and life.
Before and after their breakup, trauma is a recurring theme for many of my readers. Here's how it works and how to finally heal from it.
Do you keep thinking, "I still love my ex!" Learn why and what should I do about it. Surprisingly, it's not as big of deal as you may think.
Angry breakup, cheating breakup, sudden breakup, and more. Discover 8 most common types of breakups and learn to navigate each one.
We all go through 8 stages of a breakup while we grieve. The sooner you recognize in which one you're in, the faster you'll reach acceptance.
If your ex is checking up on you, they're likely doing it for one of these reasons. Here's how to deal with them and mend your relationship.
Learn why you miss your ex and 8 practical ways to stop missing them to finally feel at peace and in control of your life.
It could be our thinking about our relationship that’s flawed, and not necessarily the relationship itself.
Here are 18 of the biggest lessons I've learned from helping people (and myself one time) get their ex back for over five years now.
Should you text your ex happy birthday? In most cases, no. That said, there are some rare exceptions to the rule. Read and find out more.
Learn the science-based truth on what happiness is, what it isn't, and 7 ways on how to be happy after a breakup, even when it's difficult.
Learn how a social media detox can improve your well-being, increase your confidence, and help you get over your breakup.
The complete guide on how to get your ex back after cheating and actually keep them.
Your ex is not special. The faster you get that drilled into your mind, the easier it will be to let them go, rebuild your life, and move on.
