A definitive guide on how to stop missing your ex — or at least how you can miss them less — even if you're going nuts right now.
Learn what tests are, how they look, the signs your ex is testing you, whether those signs are real or not, how to deal with tests, and more.
Discover 7 proven principles on how to stop feeling lonely after a breakup so you can bounce back and feel like yourself again faster.
It’s normal to feel angry after a breakup. It's a key stage to recovery. Here are 8 ways to deal with your anger after a breakup effectively.
Discover the surprising science of why breakups hurt (even when you wanted it), how long yours will hurt, and what hurts the most about it.
Getting over your ex has a lot more to do with overcoming the looming existential crisis that comes post-breakup than anything else.
Learn why you dream about your ex every night, what does it mean, and how to stop dreaming about them so you can function normally again.
The science and solutions behind arguably the largest and most common problem people who want their ex back face.
A guide on how to tell your ex you still love them and want them back, and stop pretending you're okay with how things are between you now.
Were you in a toxic relationship or are your biases tricking you? Get your answer here, with the 12 warning signs of a toxic relationship.
If you want a lasting and functioning relationship with your ex, you must be somewhat compatible. Here's a one-stop shop guide on the matter.
Learn about the Phantom Ex and Soulmate Syndromes and how to overcome them so you don't remain forever heartbroken and disappointed in love.
Angry breakup, cheating breakup, sudden breakup, and more. Discover 8 most common types of breakups and learn to navigate each one.
The more you try to rid yourself of suffering, the more powerful it grows. The only way out is through acceptance. Here’s how this looks like.
Learn why the 30-day no contact rule doesn't actually work and what you should be doing instead to get your ex back.
An honest and pragmatic exploration of the nature of happiness and how to acquire it after a breakup, even when all you feel is pain.
In my opinion, a better alternative to traditional journaling. Read this guide to learn how to leverage it to speed up your breakup recovery.
Here are 12 biases that make you overestimate your ex’s attractiveness and propel you to rekindle things when you perhaps shouldn't.
You probably won’t forget the wrongs committed against you anytime soon. But what you can do is forgive your ex. Here’s how.
Learn how the popular advice of "fake it until you make it" can backfire when you're trying to get your ex back.
Sometimes doing nothing is more powerful than absolutely anything you could possibly say or do in a re-attraction related situation.
Most "re-attraction science" techniques are logical placebos for creating emotional realities; ways for people to cope with emotional issues.
Learn how to deal with uncertainty effectively and grow into a more resilient and less shitty person despite your breakup.
Here are 18 of the biggest lessons I've learned from helping people (and myself one time) get their ex back for over five years now.
Learn seven supremely practical ways of coping with regret post-breakup so you can emerge as a more resilient and happier person despite it.
Learn what habits are, the science of habit formation, as well as how to build healthy post-breakup habits and actually stick with them.
Re-attraction — that is, the process of rekindling a romantic relationship — is not easy or quick, nor is it what you think it is.
Think about this: why ever mend a relationship with someone who is unable, unwilling, or unenthusiastic to help you mend it as well?
Most people never take responsibility for their breakup, and so they suffer perpetually. Learn how to take it, and break the cycle.
Learn why the signs your ex is in a rebound relationship may not mean anything and what you should do instead of focusing on them.
I had quite a prolific dating period in my teens. Here are 15 lessons I learned from it that may change your entire love life for the better.
Character development is crucial for becoming more attractive and getting back with your ex sooner. Here's how you can leverage it.
Has your ex left you for someone else? Here are 10 tips on how to deal with it and 4 painful truths about the whole thing.
I’ve noticed lots of people making unconscious covert contracts with their exes, and it’s a big problem that I want to shed light on.
Learn how to never get over a breakup and become a perpetually heartbroken and miserable person. It's easy if you put your mind to it!
Learn what it means when your ex insults you and how to handle the situation in a way that gets you closer to rekindling your relationship.
Learn whether or not exes even come back, 30 signs your ex will come back, why focusing on these signs is unhealthy, and what to do instead.
Discover 7 powerful solutions for when you can't sleep after a breakup straight from a retired biohacker and sleep and productivity nerd.
Going no contact with a fearful-avoidant is tricky. But this guide will simplify everything so you can mend your relationship faster.
Here are 6 of the most common myths about emotions and the science-backed truths you should believe instead.
Discover 12 signs indicating you're getting ex-back advice from a guru: a modern-day shoddy product peddler and con artist.
Just realised, "my ex blocked me on everything"? Unsure what to do? How to get unblocked? Is it even worth trying? Let's investigate.
Your ex is not special. The faster you get that drilled into your mind, the easier it will be to let them go, rebuild your life, and move on.
Learn how a social media detox can improve your well-being, increase your confidence, and help you heal from your breakup.
Don't overwhelm yourself with breakup recovery and know that the whole point of it is to come to a place where you no longer need it.
Learn everything there is to know about the contact rule — the best way to recover from your breakup and/or get your ex back.
Is your rekindled relationship healthy or not? Get your answer here, with this eye-opening guide to cultivating healthy relationships.
Be yourself is terrible advice for most. What you should do instead is work toward becoming the best, most attractive person you can be.
The post that changed my life.
True vulnerability is key when you're trying to get back with your ex. Learn what it is and what it can and can't do for you.
Discover the 5 stages of getting back together with an ex and how to leverage them to mend your relationship faster.
Few relationship questions are as polarizing as if you can be friends with an ex after a breakup. Here's my best attempt at answering.
Attachment theory is not only a good explanation for why your relationship failed, it’s the solution for many of your relational struggles.
Your ex isn't gaming or testing you. They don't want you to suffer. They don't have GIGS. They're not confused. They just don't like you.
A life purpose is one of the bigger determinants of a person's attractiveness, resilience, and happiness. Here's my way of finding it.
Perhaps the reason you can't let go of your ex is because you're scared and selfish — the same way I was years ago.
Learn three powerful healing modalities that will turbocharge your breakup recovery and help you feel great again faster than anything else.
In a world constantly promoting positivity and happiness, it's refreshing to have the benefits of sadness come into the spotlight.
A breakup makes us form many limiting beliefs about ourselves that hold us back from recovery and growth. Here's how to overcome them.
Breakups suck, but there are many worse things that could happen to you. So be grateful a breakup is the only thing on your plate.
A few tips for developing self-awareness. The better you become at the skill, the likelier your ex will perceive you as more attractive.
The Phantom Ex Syndrome is a nasty delusion many people yearning for their ex fall for. Here's how it works and how to overcome it.
Learn why your ex is being hot and cold, whether it's a good sign or not, and how to deal with it so they become more affectionate.
For those of you who are stressing about getting your ex back, a few simple words of wisdom to shift your perspective.
Learn 8 signs your ex just wants to sleep with you, why they want it, and how to navigate the conundrum so you eventually get them back.
Jealousy is something most people who want their ex back feel. And it's a pretty valid feeling to have. Learn 8 ways to overcome it.
Making good post-breakup decisions is a skill you can practice and develop. Here are ten tips for making better ones.
A breakup will stifle your productivity. But there are certain universal and tried and tested principles you can follow to boost it.
Consider being more vulnerable with your ex yourself. Maybe it changes everything. Fuck around and find out.
Practicing self-care after a breakup isn't rocket science. And it all starts with investing in five core life areas. Here's a guide on them.
Always have a support system. Always be part of a community. Always get professional help. And always start dating as soon as reasonable.
Texting your ex is rarely a good idea. It may work for a few people but fail for the vast majority. Here are 10 reasons why it sucks.
Discover 25 brilliant books to read after a breakup that will speed up your recovery and help you become a better person.
My personal philosophy. I'm happier and more resilient than ever because of it. Maybe you will get the same results if you adopt it.
Before and after their breakup, trauma is a recurring theme for many of my readers. Here's how it works and how to finally heal from it.
Stop paying attention to what your ex says and means. Instead, focus on what they do to accurately gauge their attraction.
Chasing your ex doesn't make them come back. It only pushes them farther away. To get them back, you first have to let them go.
Polarization is a concept from pickup and dating literature you can use to get your ex back in a more natural, stress-free, and mature way.
Learn about self-love and discover 7 practical activities to love yourself better after your breakup so you can speed up your recovery.
Trying too hard to feel better and reach your post-breakup goals usually has the opposite effect — and the backwards law proves this.
If you’re not seeing any progress in re-attracting your ex in 1-3 months after the breakup, stop trying to get them back.
Learn the process of finding yourself after a breakup so you can speed up your recovery, feel less alienated, and finally be happy again.
The idea that you need to be indifferent toward your ex to get them back is not only impossible but even toxic. Here's what to do instead.
Learn how getting an ex back is often purposefully drenched in artificial complexity and 7 powerful ways to decomplicate the whole thing.
Here are the 15 ex-back mistakes people make repeatedly. Avoid them at all cost, for they just might cost you your relationship.
Learn to understand neediness and manage it better (even overcome it) so it doesn't sabotage your attempts at getting back with your ex.
Discover 16 signs your ex will never come back, why focusing on them lowers your chances of reconciliation, and what to do instead.
If you're wondering "does my ex miss me?" the answer is yes. But does them missing you make it any easier to get them back? Not really.
Getting your ex to stop ignoring you has more to do with letting them go and surrendering to pain than trying to change their behavior.
Getting your ex back and keeping them gets so much easier if you just learn how to set and keep proper and healthy personal boundaries.
Why did your ex move on so fast? What does it mean? How can you best respond? Here's everything you need to know if your ex moved on quickly.
Many think it's unhealthy to seek validation. But that's not true. It is healthy (even normal) if you're seeking it from the right place.
