Learn three powerful healing modalities that will turbocharge your breakup recovery and help you feel great again faster than anything else.
The idea that you need to be indifferent toward your ex to get them back is not only impossible but even toxic. Here's what to do instead.
It's not about acting attractive that gets your ex back; it's about actually becoming attractive that gets them back.
Here are five simple yet harsh truths about getting an ex back that no one tells you about. For the most part, because they don't sell.
The complete guide on how to get your ex back after cheating and actually keep them.
Few relationship questions are as polarizing as if you can be friends with an ex after a breakup. Here's my best attempt at answering.
Has your ex left you for someone else? Here are 10 tips on how to deal with it and 4 painful truths about the whole thing.
Your ex is not special. The faster you get that drilled into your mind, the easier it will be to let them go, rebuild your life, and move on.
Chasing your ex doesn't make them come back. It only pushes them farther away. To get them back, you first have to let them go.
Learn 8 signs your ex just wants to sleep with you, why they want it, and how to navigate the conundrum so you eventually get them back.
A complete guide to dating after a breakup — whether you want to date casually or find true and lasting love.
A few tips for developing self-awareness. The better you become at the skill, the likelier your ex will perceive you as more attractive.
A definitive guide on how to stop missing your ex — or at least how you can miss them less — even if you're going nuts right now.
Anyone who thought about it for more than 30 seconds will realize that getting sexual with their ex quickly is moral and healthy, even sex.
In my opinion, a better alternative to traditional journaling. Read this guide to learn how to leverage it to speed up your breakup recovery.
Learn whether or not exes even come back, 30 signs your ex will come back, why focusing on these signs is unhealthy, and what to do instead.
A rebound relationship is not always a bad thing. Sometimes, it's a great thing — in the short and long term, no matter how it unravels.
Why did your ex move on so fast? What does it mean? How can you best respond? Here's everything you need to know if your ex moved on quickly.
A breakup will stifle your productivity. But there are certain universal and tried and tested principles you can follow to boost it.
Angry breakup, cheating breakup, sudden breakup, and more. Discover 8 most common types of breakups and learn to navigate each one.
Character development is crucial for becoming more attractive and getting back with your ex sooner. Here's how you can leverage it.
Getting your ex to stop ignoring you has more to do with letting them go and surrendering to pain than trying to change their behavior.
A breakup makes us form many limiting beliefs about ourselves that hold us back from recovery and growth. Here's how to overcome them.
Discover 12 signs indicating you're getting ex-back advice from a guru: a modern-day shoddy product peddler and con artist.
Breakups suck, but there are many worse things that could happen to you. So be grateful a breakup is the only thing on your plate.
Most "re-attraction science" techniques are logical placebos for creating emotional realities; ways for people to cope with emotional issues.
In a world constantly promoting positivity and happiness, it's refreshing to have the benefits of sadness come into the spotlight.
Discover 25 brilliant books to read after a breakup that will speed up your recovery and help you become a better person.
Here are 16 signs your ex is pretending to be over you, even though they secretly want you back and how to respond appropriately.
A guide on how to tell your ex you still love them and want them back, and stop pretending you're okay with how things are between you now.
An honest and pragmatic exploration of the nature of happiness and how to acquire it after a breakup, even when all you feel is pain.
Here are 18 of the biggest lessons I've learned from helping people (and myself one time) get their ex back for over five years now.
Texting your ex is rarely a good idea. It may work for a few people but fail for the vast majority. Here are 10 reasons why it sucks.
Discover the 5 stages of getting back together with an ex and how to leverage them to mend your relationship faster.
For those of you who are stressing about getting your ex back, a few simple words of wisdom to shift your perspective.
The science and solutions behind arguably the largest and most common problem people who want their ex back face.
Jealousy is something most people who want their ex back feel. And it's a pretty valid feeling to have. Learn 8 ways to overcome it.
Practicing self-care after a breakup isn't rocket science. And it all starts with investing in five core life areas. Here's a guide on them.
Learn what tests are, how they look, the signs your ex is testing you, whether those signs are real or not, how to deal with tests, and more.
Going through a breakup sucks. But thankfully, understanding its stages and how to navigate them makes the journey easier. So here they are.
Learn what anxiety is, where it comes from, how it screws you over, and how to overcome it so you can be more confident and less fearful.
Be yourself is terrible advice for most. What you should do instead is work toward becoming the best, most attractive person you can be.
Before and after their breakup, trauma is a recurring theme for many of my readers. Here's how it works and how to finally heal from it.
Re-attraction — that is, the process of rekindling a romantic relationship — is not easy or quick, nor is it what you think it is.
The more you try to rid yourself of suffering, the more powerful it grows. The only way out is through acceptance. Here’s how this looks like.
Before one can heal from a breakup, they need to decide that that's something worth doing — they need to overcome their crisis of hope.
Polarization is a concept from pickup and dating literature you can use to get your ex back in a more natural, stress-free, and mature way.
Sometimes doing nothing is more powerful than absolutely anything you could possibly say or do in a re-attraction related situation.
Learn how getting an ex back is often purposefully drenched in artificial complexity and 7 powerful ways to decomplicate the whole thing.
Learn why the 30-day no contact rule doesn't actually work and what you should be doing instead to get your ex back.
I’ve noticed lots of people making unconscious covert contracts with their exes, and it’s a big problem that I want to shed light on.
Think about this: why ever mend a relationship with someone who is unable, unwilling, or unenthusiastic to help you mend it as well?
Learn about the nature of self-esteem and a handful of therapy-approved solutions for rebuilding (or building) it after your breakup.
You don’t necessarily deserve anything after your breakup, good or bad. Instead, here’s a simpler view on the topic to adopt.
Just realised, "my ex blocked me on everything"? Unsure what to do? How to get unblocked? Is it even worth trying? Let's investigate.
Learn how to deal with uncertainty effectively and grow into a more resilient and less shitty person despite your breakup.
Trying too hard to feel better and reach your post-breakup goals usually has the opposite effect — and the backwards law proves this.
If you’re not seeing any progress in re-attracting your ex in 1-3 months after the breakup, stop trying to get them back.
True vulnerability is key when you're trying to get back with your ex. Learn what it is and what it can and can't do for you.
Getting over your ex has a lot more to do with overcoming the looming existential crisis that comes post-breakup than anything else.
Learn to understand neediness and manage it better (even overcome it) so it doesn't sabotage your attempts at getting back with your ex.
Here are 6 of the most common myths about emotions and the science-backed truths you should believe instead.
You probably won’t forget the wrongs committed against you anytime soon. But what you can do is forgive your ex. Here’s how.
Stop paying attention to what your ex says and means. Instead, focus on what they do to accurately gauge their attraction.
Making good post-breakup decisions is a skill you can practice and develop. Here are ten tips for making better ones.
Getting your ex back and keeping them gets so much easier if you just learn how to set and keep proper and healthy personal boundaries.
Learn how to never get over a breakup and become a perpetually heartbroken and miserable person. It's easy if you put your mind to it!
Going no contact with a fearful-avoidant is tricky. But this guide will simplify everything so you can mend your relationship faster.
Learn why your ex is being hot and cold, whether it's a good sign or not, and how to deal with it so they become more affectionate.
Breakup pain is a fact of life. But there are ways to grow from it. In fact, here are 7 of them, backed by science.
Discover 7 proven principles on how to stop feeling lonely after a breakup so you can bounce back and feel like yourself again faster.
A life purpose is one of the bigger determinants of a person's attractiveness, resilience, and happiness. Here's my way of finding it.
Is your rekindled relationship healthy or not? Get your answer here, with this eye-opening guide to cultivating healthy relationships.
Consider being more vulnerable with your ex yourself. Maybe it changes everything. Fuck around and find out.
Discover the surprising science of why breakups hurt (even when you wanted it), how long yours will hurt, and what hurts the most about it.
Always have a support system. Always be part of a community. Always get professional help. And always start dating as soon as reasonable.
If you want a lasting and functioning relationship with your ex, you must be somewhat compatible. Here's a one-stop shop guide on the matter.
Learn seven supremely practical ways of coping with regret post-breakup so you can emerge as a more resilient and happier person despite it.
Breaking up hurts, but why does it happen? Why did your relationship fail in the first place? Discover 18 reasons in this article.
Most people never take responsibility for their breakup, and so they suffer perpetually. Learn how to take it, and break the cycle.
Your ex isn't gaming or testing you. They don't want you to suffer. They don't have GIGS. They're not confused. They just don't like you.
Don't overwhelm yourself with breakup recovery and know that the whole point of it is to come to a place where you no longer need it.
Here are the 15 ex-back mistakes people make repeatedly. Avoid them at all cost, for they just might cost you your relationship.
My personal philosophy. I'm happier and more resilient than ever because of it. Maybe you will get the same results if you adopt it.
The post that changed my life.
A breakdown of the stages of dumpers remorse or regret and their psychology. Learn what they are, how they work, and the timelines for each.
Learn why you dream about your ex every night, what does it mean, and how to stop dreaming about them so you can function normally again.
The Phantom Ex Syndrome is a nasty delusion many people yearning for their ex fall for. Here's how it works and how to overcome it.
