If you want a lasting and functioning relationship with your ex, you must be somewhat compatible. Here's a one-stop shop guide on the matter.
It's not about acting attractive that gets your ex back; it's about actually becoming attractive that gets them back.
Angry breakup, cheating breakup, sudden breakup, and more. Discover 8 most common types of breakups and learn to navigate each one.
A breakdown of the stages of dumpers remorse or regret and their psychology. Learn what they are, how they work, and the timelines for each.
Learn what it means when your ex insults you and how to handle the situation in a way that gets you closer to rekindling your relationship.
Here are the 15 ex-back mistakes people make repeatedly. Avoid them at all cost, for they just might cost you your relationship.
Most "re-attraction science" techniques are logical placebos for creating emotional realities; ways for people to cope with emotional issues.
Discover 7 powerful solutions for when you can't sleep after a breakup straight from a retired biohacker and sleep and productivity nerd.
My personal philosophy. I'm happier and more resilient than ever because of it. Maybe you will get the same results if you adopt it.
Here are 18 of the biggest lessons I've learned from helping people (and myself one time) get their ex back for over five years now.
The complete guide on how to get your ex back after cheating and actually keep them.
It’s normal to feel angry after a breakup. It's a key stage to recovery. Here are 8 ways to deal with your anger after a breakup effectively.
Learn 8 signs your ex just wants to sleep with you, why they want it, and how to navigate the conundrum so you eventually get them back.
Learn why the 30-day no contact rule doesn't actually work and what you should be doing instead to get your ex back.
Jealousy is something most people who want their ex back feel. And it's a pretty valid feeling to have. Learn 8 ways to overcome it.
Before one can heal from a breakup, they need to decide that that's something worth doing — they need to overcome their crisis of hope.
Always have a support system. Always be part of a community. Always get professional help. And always start dating as soon as reasonable.
If your ex is checking up on you, they're likely doing it for one of these reasons. Here's how to deal with them and mend your relationship.
Polarization is a concept from pickup and dating literature you can use to get your ex back in a more natural, stress-free, and mature way.
The Phantom Ex Syndrome is a nasty delusion many people yearning for their ex fall for. Here's how it works and how to overcome it.
In a world constantly promoting positivity and happiness, it's refreshing to have the benefits of sadness come into the spotlight.
Here are 16 signs your ex is pretending to be over you, even though they secretly want you back and how to respond appropriately.
The more you try to rid yourself of suffering, the more powerful it grows. The only way out is through acceptance. Here’s how this looks like.
Learn everything there is to know about the contact rule — the best way to recover from your breakup and/or get your ex back.
A complete guide to dating after a breakup — whether you want to date casually or find true and lasting love.
Learn how the popular advice of "fake it until you make it" can backfire when you're trying to get your ex back.
Is your rekindled relationship healthy or not? Get your answer here, with this eye-opening guide to cultivating healthy relationships.
I’ve noticed lots of people making unconscious covert contracts with their exes, and it’s a big problem that I want to shed light on.
Perhaps the reason you can't let go of your ex is because you're scared and selfish — the same way I was years ago.
Learn about the Phantom Ex and Soulmate Syndromes and how to overcome them so you don't remain forever heartbroken and disappointed in love.
Learn why your ex is being hot and cold, whether it's a good sign or not, and how to deal with it so they become more affectionate.
Learn what habits are, the science of habit formation, as well as how to build healthy post-breakup habits and actually stick with them.
For those of you who are stressing about getting your ex back, a few simple words of wisdom to shift your perspective.
Here are five simple yet harsh truths about getting an ex back that no one tells you about. For the most part, because they don't sell.
Here are 6 of the most common myths about emotions and the science-backed truths you should believe instead.
Your ex isn't gaming or testing you. They don't want you to suffer. They don't have GIGS. They're not confused. They just don't like you.
A few tips for developing self-awareness. The better you become at the skill, the likelier your ex will perceive you as more attractive.
The science and solutions behind arguably the largest and most common problem people who want their ex back face.
Re-attraction — that is, the process of rekindling a romantic relationship — is not easy or quick, nor is it what you think it is.
Learn the process of finding yourself after a breakup so you can speed up your recovery, feel less alienated, and finally be happy again.
Getting your ex back and keeping them gets so much easier if you just learn how to set and keep proper and healthy personal boundaries.
Why did your ex move on so fast? What does it mean? How can you best respond? Here's everything you need to know if your ex moved on quickly.
Character development is crucial for becoming more attractive and getting back with your ex sooner. Here's how you can leverage it.
Your ex is not special. The faster you get that drilled into your mind, the easier it will be to let them go, rebuild your life, and move on.
Be yourself is terrible advice for most. What you should do instead is work toward becoming the best, most attractive person you can be.
Learn how to never get over a breakup and become a perpetually heartbroken and miserable person. It's easy if you put your mind to it!
Breakup pain is a fact of life. But there are ways to grow from it. In fact, here are 7 of them, backed by science.
Getting your ex to stop ignoring you has more to do with letting them go and surrendering to pain than trying to change their behavior.
Breakups suck, but there are many worse things that could happen to you. So be grateful a breakup is the only thing on your plate.
Learn about self-love and discover 7 practical activities to love yourself better after your breakup so you can speed up your recovery.
Learn whether or not exes even come back, 30 signs your ex will come back, why focusing on these signs is unhealthy, and what to do instead.
Discover the 5 stages of getting back together with an ex and how to leverage them to mend your relationship faster.
Chasing your ex doesn't make them come back. It only pushes them farther away. To get them back, you first have to let them go.
Discover 16 signs your ex will never come back, why focusing on them lowers your chances of reconciliation, and what to do instead.
Practicing self-care after a breakup isn't rocket science. And it all starts with investing in five core life areas. Here's a guide on them.
Consider being more vulnerable with your ex yourself. Maybe it changes everything. Fuck around and find out.
Discover 12 signs indicating you're getting ex-back advice from a guru: a modern-day shoddy product peddler and con artist.
Learn what tests are, how they look, the signs your ex is testing you, whether those signs are real or not, how to deal with tests, and more.
The prime difference between those who get back with their ex for good versus those who struggle and fail.
Here are 12 biases that make you overestimate your ex’s attractiveness and propel you to rekindle things when you perhaps shouldn't.
Going no contact with a fearful-avoidant is tricky. But this guide will simplify everything so you can mend your relationship faster.
Ex-back advice is self-improvement in disguise — get your mind and life in order, and the rest will probably take care of itself.
Discover 5 fallacies that kill relationships and learn how to manage them to boost your chances of cultivating lasting love with someone.
Learn how to deal with uncertainty effectively and grow into a more resilient and less shitty person despite your breakup.
Attachment theory is not only a good explanation for why your relationship failed, it’s the solution for many of your relational struggles.
Breaking up hurts, but why does it happen? Why did your relationship fail in the first place? Discover 18 reasons in this article.
If you’re not seeing any progress in re-attracting your ex in 1-3 months after the breakup, stop trying to get them back.
A definitive guide on how to stop missing your ex — or at least how you can miss them less — even if you're going nuts right now.
Learn all about the 5 stages of a rebound relationship, rebound psychology, and the 3 ways everyone misunderstands them.
Discover 7 proven principles on how to stop feeling lonely after a breakup so you can bounce back and feel like yourself again faster.
Learn seven supremely practical ways of coping with regret post-breakup so you can emerge as a more resilient and happier person despite it.
Were you in a toxic relationship or are your biases tricking you? Get your answer here, with the 12 warning signs of a toxic relationship.
Think about this: why ever mend a relationship with someone who is unable, unwilling, or unenthusiastic to help you mend it as well?
Trying too hard to feel better and reach your post-breakup goals usually has the opposite effect — and the backwards law proves this.
Discover the surprising science of why breakups hurt (even when you wanted it), how long yours will hurt, and what hurts the most about it.
Most people never take responsibility for their breakup, and so they suffer perpetually. Learn how to take it, and break the cycle.
The idea that you need to be indifferent toward your ex to get them back is not only impossible but even toxic. Here's what to do instead.
Few relationship questions are as polarizing as if you can be friends with an ex after a breakup. Here's my best attempt at answering.
A breakup will stifle your productivity. But there are certain universal and tried and tested principles you can follow to boost it.
Just realised, "my ex blocked me on everything"? Unsure what to do? How to get unblocked? Is it even worth trying? Let's investigate.
If you're wondering "does my ex miss me?" the answer is yes. But does them missing you make it any easier to get them back? Not really.
A life purpose is one of the bigger determinants of a person's attractiveness, resilience, and happiness. Here's my way of finding it.
Going through a breakup sucks. But thankfully, understanding its stages and how to navigate them makes the journey easier. So here they are.
Before and after their breakup, trauma is a recurring theme for many of my readers. Here's how it works and how to finally heal from it.
Sometimes doing nothing is more powerful than absolutely anything you could possibly say or do in a re-attraction related situation.
A rebound relationship is not always a bad thing. Sometimes, it's a great thing — in the short and long term, no matter how it unravels.
Learn why you dream about your ex every night, what does it mean, and how to stop dreaming about them so you can function normally again.
