If you’re not seeing any progress in re-attracting your ex in 1-3 months after the breakup, stop trying to get them back.
A complete guide to dating after a breakup — whether you want to date casually or find true and lasting love.
Learn why your ex is being hot and cold, whether it's a good sign or not, and how to deal with it so they become more affectionate.
Learn about self-love and discover 7 practical activities to love yourself better after your breakup so you can speed up your recovery.
If you want a lasting and functioning relationship with your ex, you must be somewhat compatible. Here's a one-stop shop guide on the matter.
If you're wondering "does my ex miss me?" the answer is yes. But does them missing you make it any easier to get them back? Not really.
Learn 8 signs your ex just wants to sleep with you, why they want it, and how to navigate the conundrum so you eventually get them back.
Making good post-breakup decisions is a skill you can practice and develop. Here are ten tips for making better ones.
Learn about the Phantom Ex and Soulmate Syndromes and how to overcome them so you don't remain forever heartbroken and disappointed in love.
Has your ex left you for someone else? Here are 10 tips on how to deal with it and 4 painful truths about the whole thing.
The Phantom Ex Syndrome is a nasty delusion many people yearning for their ex fall for. Here's how it works and how to overcome it.
Learn how getting an ex back is often purposefully drenched in artificial complexity and 7 powerful ways to decomplicate the whole thing.
Learn about the nature of self-esteem and a handful of therapy-approved solutions for rebuilding (or building) it after your breakup.
Discover 16 signs your ex will never come back, why focusing on them lowers your chances of reconciliation, and what to do instead.
Before one can heal from a breakup, they need to decide that that's something worth doing — they need to overcome their crisis of hope.
Discover 7 proven principles on how to stop feeling lonely after a breakup so you can bounce back and feel like yourself again faster.
Learn seven supremely practical ways of coping with regret post-breakup so you can emerge as a more resilient and happier person despite it.
In a world constantly promoting positivity and happiness, it's refreshing to have the benefits of sadness come into the spotlight.
Were you in a toxic relationship or are your biases tricking you? Get your answer here, with the 12 warning signs of a toxic relationship.
Your ex isn't gaming or testing you. They don't want you to suffer. They don't have GIGS. They're not confused. They just don't like you.
Learn everything there is to know about the contact rule — the best way to recover from your breakup and/or get your ex back.
Sometimes doing nothing is more powerful than absolutely anything you could possibly say or do in a re-attraction related situation.
Before and after their breakup, trauma is a recurring theme for many of my readers. Here's how it works and how to finally heal from it.
It's not about acting attractive that gets your ex back; it's about actually becoming attractive that gets them back.
Consider being more vulnerable with your ex yourself. Maybe it changes everything. Fuck around and find out.
Be yourself is terrible advice for most. What you should do instead is work toward becoming the best, most attractive person you can be.
The prime difference between those who get back with their ex for good versus those who struggle and fail.
Discover the surprising science of why breakups hurt (even when you wanted it), how long yours will hurt, and what hurts the most about it.
The complete guide on how to get your ex back after cheating and actually keep them.
Always have a support system. Always be part of a community. Always get professional help. And always start dating as soon as reasonable.
Here are 18 of the biggest lessons I've learned from helping people (and myself one time) get their ex back for over five years now.
My personal philosophy. I'm happier and more resilient than ever because of it. Maybe you will get the same results if you adopt it.
Just realised, "my ex blocked me on everything"? Unsure what to do? How to get unblocked? Is it even worth trying? Let's investigate.
The science and solutions behind arguably the largest and most common problem people who want their ex back face.
Ex-back advice is self-improvement in disguise — get your mind and life in order, and the rest will probably take care of itself.
Going no contact with a fearful-avoidant is tricky. But this guide will simplify everything so you can mend your relationship faster.
A life purpose is one of the bigger determinants of a person's attractiveness, resilience, and happiness. Here's my way of finding it.
Think about this: why ever mend a relationship with someone who is unable, unwilling, or unenthusiastic to help you mend it as well?
Learn how the popular advice of "fake it until you make it" can backfire when you're trying to get your ex back.
Learn what it means when your ex insults you and how to handle the situation in a way that gets you closer to rekindling your relationship.
Breakups suck, but there are many worse things that could happen to you. So be grateful a breakup is the only thing on your plate.
In my opinion, a better alternative to traditional journaling. Read this guide to learn how to leverage it to speed up your breakup recovery.
A rebound relationship is not always a bad thing. Sometimes, it's a great thing — in the short and long term, no matter how it unravels.
Jealousy is something most people who want their ex back feel. And it's a pretty valid feeling to have. Learn 8 ways to overcome it.
Here are 12 biases that make you overestimate your ex’s attractiveness and propel you to rekindle things when you perhaps shouldn't.
Perhaps the reason you can't let go of your ex is because you're scared and selfish — the same way I was years ago.
Here are 16 signs your ex is pretending to be over you, even though they secretly want you back and how to respond appropriately.
Texting your ex is rarely a good idea. It may work for a few people but fail for the vast majority. Here are 10 reasons why it sucks.
A breakdown of the stages of dumpers remorse or regret and their psychology. Learn what they are, how they work, and the timelines for each.
Anyone who thought about it for more than 30 seconds will realize that getting sexual with their ex quickly is moral and healthy, even sex.
Most people never take responsibility for their breakup, and so they suffer perpetually. Learn how to take it, and break the cycle.
A few tips for developing self-awareness. The better you become at the skill, the likelier your ex will perceive you as more attractive.
Learn whether or not exes even come back, 30 signs your ex will come back, why focusing on these signs is unhealthy, and what to do instead.
Learn why the 30-day no contact rule doesn't actually work and what you should be doing instead to get your ex back.
The post that changed my life.
A breakup makes us form many limiting beliefs about ourselves that hold us back from recovery and growth. Here's how to overcome them.
Few relationship questions are as polarizing as if you can be friends with an ex after a breakup. Here's my best attempt at answering.
Discover 5 fallacies that kill relationships and learn how to manage them to boost your chances of cultivating lasting love with someone.
Learn why the signs your ex is in a rebound relationship may not mean anything and what you should do instead of focusing on them.
I’ve noticed lots of people making unconscious covert contracts with their exes, and it’s a big problem that I want to shed light on.
Learn how a social media detox can improve your well-being, increase your confidence, and help you heal from your breakup.
Getting your ex back and keeping them gets so much easier if you just learn how to set and keep proper and healthy personal boundaries.
Is your rekindled relationship healthy or not? Get your answer here, with this eye-opening guide to cultivating healthy relationships.
You don’t necessarily deserve anything after your breakup, good or bad. Instead, here’s a simpler view on the topic to adopt.
Breaking up hurts, but why does it happen? Why did your relationship fail in the first place? Discover 18 reasons in this article.
Here are five simple yet harsh truths about getting an ex back that no one tells you about. For the most part, because they don't sell.
should I contact my ex who dumped me? In short, no. You probably shouldn't reach out. And here's why and what to do instead.
Re-attraction — that is, the process of rekindling a romantic relationship — is not easy or quick, nor is it what you think it is.
Discover 25 brilliant books to read after a breakup that will speed up your recovery and help you become a better person.
It’s normal to feel angry after a breakup. It's a key stage to recovery. Here are 8 ways to deal with your anger after a breakup effectively.
For those of you who are stressing about getting your ex back, a few simple words of wisdom to shift your perspective.
Learn what habits are, the science of habit formation, as well as how to build healthy post-breakup habits and actually stick with them.
Don't overwhelm yourself with breakup recovery and know that the whole point of it is to come to a place where you no longer need it.
Polarization is a concept from pickup and dating literature you can use to get your ex back in a more natural, stress-free, and mature way.
Character development is crucial for becoming more attractive and getting back with your ex sooner. Here's how you can leverage it.
The more you try to rid yourself of suffering, the more powerful it grows. The only way out is through acceptance. Here’s how this looks like.
If your ex is checking up on you, they're likely doing it for one of these reasons. Here's how to deal with them and mend your relationship.
Many think it's unhealthy to seek validation. But that's not true. It is healthy (even normal) if you're seeking it from the right place.
Angry breakup, cheating breakup, sudden breakup, and more. Discover 8 most common types of breakups and learn to navigate each one.
A breakup will stifle your productivity. But there are certain universal and tried and tested principles you can follow to boost it.
Your ex is not special. The faster you get that drilled into your mind, the easier it will be to let them go, rebuild your life, and move on.
Learn the process of finding yourself after a breakup so you can speed up your recovery, feel less alienated, and finally be happy again.
Stop paying attention to what your ex says and means. Instead, focus on what they do to accurately gauge their attraction.
Attachment theory is not only a good explanation for why your relationship failed, it’s the solution for many of your relational struggles.
Learn why you dream about your ex every night, what does it mean, and how to stop dreaming about them so you can function normally again.
A definitive guide on how to stop missing your ex — or at least how you can miss them less — even if you're going nuts right now.
