40 Glaring Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back

I get it. You’re curious about the signs your ex will eventually come back so you can more easily pinpoint your chances of reconciliation. I commend you for your commitment.

However, here’s some sobering advice: the more you obsess over these signs — or if your ex will return in general — the likelier it is that you’ll make unnecessary mistakes that could harm your emotional well-being and sabotage re-attraction, lowering the odds of mending your relationship.

So while it’s okay to be aware of the signs your ex may return, it’s crucial to recognize and curb any obsession with them. But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s start from the beginning and go from there.

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Do Exes Even Come Back

Yes, exes do come back — but it’s rare.

According to a 3000+ participant study from ExBackPermanently, as well as my anecdotal evidence from coaching people on reconciliation for the last five years, only 30% of exes get back together. And only half of those 30% stay together for good. The remaining half parted ways shortly after getting back together. (1)

PSA: I have since spent over a year conducting a survey on the prevalence of reconciliation. According to over 4000 people who responded, only 32% of exes get back together. Of these, roughly 18% have stayed together for over a year after reconciling. You can read more about my survey here.

A crucial aspect to note here is that individuals who managed to rekindle and maintain a relationship did not simply sit back and hope for their ex to return. Instead, they took the initiative, invested in themselves, and addressed and resolved the major underlying problems that caused their breakup.

Moreover, these people didn’t waste time chasing after their ex. Especially not if the ex was cold and unreceptive or didn’t put much effort into mending the relationship. Instead, these people moved on. And it wasn’t until they’ve given their ex enough space through moving on that the ex came back into the picture.

Sounds paradoxical, but letting go of your ex truly is the best way to get them back.​

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How To Actually Interpret These Signs: The Hierarchy

Not all signs are created equal. Some are slam-dunks that your ex wants you back. Others are so weak they’re basically meaningless. Here’s how to think about them:

Tier 1: Nearly Guaranteed Interest (Take Action Now)

These signs mean your ex is seriously considering reconciliation. If you’re seeing multiple Tier 1 signs, they’re probably ready to get back together — you just need to make a move.

• They explicitly say they want to try again — no ambiguity, just direct interest
• They ask you on dates regularly — and actually follow through
• Physical affection is happening — kissing, sex, or heavy touching when you meet up
• They talk about a future with you — trips, plans, or serious life stuff together
• They apologize and take ownership — genuine remorse with concrete changes

What to do: If you’re seeing Tier 1 signs, stop playing it cool and escalate. Invite them out, get physical, and move toward re-commitment. Don’t waste time — strike while the iron is hot.

Tier 2: Strong Interest (They’re Probably Coming Back)

These signs indicate your ex still has serious feelings and is likely working up the courage to reconnect. Give it time, but stay ready to engage when they reach out.

• Regular personal contact initiated by them — checking in, asking about your life
• Jealousy when you date others — they get visibly upset or try to sabotage
• They place themselves in your orbit — “accidentally” showing up where you are
• They share vulnerabilities with you — treating you like an intimate partner still
• Creating excuses to talk or see you — flimsy reasons to maintain contact
• Opens up about regretting the breakup — second-guessing their decision openly

What to do: Respond to their interest but don’t chase. Be warm when they reach out, suggest meeting in person, but let them do most of the work. If they’re truly interested, they’ll escalate on their own.

Tier 3: Moderate Interest (Could Go Either Way)

These signs suggest your ex still thinks about you and isn’t completely over the relationship. But they’re also not actively pursuing reconciliation. Don’t read too much into these alone.

• Sporadic contact about random things — inconsistent reaching out
• Social media activity — watching your stories, occasional likes
• Stays in touch with your friends/family — maintaining connections to your world
• Keeps your stuff or shows off gifts you gave — holding onto physical reminders
• Reaches out on special occasions — birthdays, holidays, anniversaries
• Blocks and unblocks you repeatedly — conflicted feelings playing out

What to do: Continue no contact unless they escalate to Tier 2 behavior. These signs alone aren’t enough to justify breaking no contact or getting your hopes up. Wait for clearer signals.

Tier 4: Weak Interest (Don’t Get Your Hopes Up)

These are the signs people desperately cling to when they’re in denial about their ex moving on. They mean almost nothing by themselves and often just reflect normal post-breakup behavior.

• Watches all your stories but never reaches out — passive scrolling, not genuine interest
• Brief, polite responses when you contact them — courtesy, not enthusiasm
• Being friendly in unavoidable situations — just mature adult behavior
• One-off drunk texts without follow-up — impulse, not intention
• Vague “maybe someday” statements — letting you down gently

What to do: Stop analyzing these signs and move on with your life. If your ex only shows Tier 4 behavior after months, they’re not coming back. Accept reality and focus on healing instead of clinging to false hope.

The Reality Check

Here’s how to use this hierarchy: count how many signs from each tier your ex is showing.

• Multiple Tier 1 signs? They want you back. Take action.
• Multiple Tier 2 signs? High probability they’ll reach out. Stay ready but patient.
• Only Tier 3 signs? Unclear. Continue no contact and self-improvement.
• Only Tier 4 signs? They’re not coming back. Stop obsessing and move on.

And if you’re seeing zero signs from any tier after 2-3 months? Your ex is done. Let them go.

The Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back

Below are 40 signs your ex will eventually come back. To be clear, just because your ex displays any of them, doesn’t necessarily mean they actually will return. Think of them more as signals of high interest and not necessarily guarantees for reconciliation.

1. Your ex initiates contact

This is most definitely a sign they’ll come back if their contact is a) about you as a person, b) isn’t about logistics (children, pets, living arrangements, work, shared possessions), and c) isn’t indirect (social media tagging, liking your post, commenting under your profile photo). An example of such a contact would be when your ex tells or texts you something like, “This restaurant reminded me of our first date,” or when they ask, “Hey there, how are you? Just checking up on you.”

2. Your ex contacts you regularly and responds quickly and enthusiastically

This is usually a sign they’ll come back, but approach the situation cautiously and don’t jump to conclusions too quickly. This potential sign could mean different things to different people, so there’s always context to note. For instance, if you’re talking about a shared work project and your ex responds quickly, it’s likely not a sign of interest. Yet, it probably is if they respond quickly when discussing what you’ve done over the weekend.

3. Your ex is curious about you

For example, they keep asking how you’re doing, whether or not you’re still hurting, how your studies are going, how your career is unfolding, or how your dating life is turning out. The more questions they ask and the more personal and inquisitive they are, the more they’re probably interested in coming back.

4. Your ex keeps contacting you even though you’ve told them to stop

Translation: they’re panicking. Perhaps they’re even desperate. On the one hand, this is good. It’s a clear indicator of interest. But on the other, it can be downright disastrous. After all, you can’t build a stable and healthy relationship on a bedrock of panic and desperation.

5. Your ex drunk-texts or drunk-calls you

You know those 1 a.m. monologues your ex unleashes about how much they hate you yet miss you, but only because they want to fuck you, but then again, would consider something more serious? Good sign. Especially if your ex keeps doing it.

6. Your ex reaches out on special occasions or holidays

Birthdays, anniversaries, Christmases, Easter, and Thanksgiving being the most common culprits. Note, however, that if your breakup happened a long time ago, this probably isn’t a sign your ex will come back but only a simple gesture of kindness.

7. Your ex keeps creating excuses to talk to you

For example, “I just remembered I left XYZ at your place?” Or “How are the apartment renovations coming along?” If it’s not obvious already, your ex couldn’t care less about these things. Chances are, they’re just using them as excuses to get in touch with you because they miss you but are too afraid or embarrassed to be upfront about it (see: signs your ex is pretending to be over you).

8. Your ex apologizes for what went wrong

That is, they own their mistakes and admit them. For instance, they say, “I’m sorry I acted so controlling when we were together. I know I have a problem. I’m getting help tomorrow.” Or they say, “You know, I really did neglect your needs. I’m sorry I wasn’t there for you. I wish I could go back and fix my mistakes.”

9. Your ex prolongs your conversations

Meaning that whenever you’d like to end a conversation, they come up with more questions to keep you from getting away. Now sometimes this doesn’t mean anything. But if you notice your ex is repeatedly prolonging conversations that should’ve ended five to ten exchanges ago, it’s a good sign.

10. Your ex brings up past hurts

For example, they tell you, “When you spent the entire week working, only coming home to bed, it made me feel really inferior.” Or, “I got really upset when you pulled out your phone whenever we had lunch together. It felt like I wasn’t interesting anymore.” Statements like that indicate that your ex still cares, so it’s wise to interpret them as indicators of attraction.

11. Your ex brings up old memories in good light

Like when they say, “Remember when we took that spontaneous road trip and explored new places together?” Or, “Remember when we had that amazing picnic in the park and laughed so hard we couldn’t stop?” Or, “Remember when we went to that park, and I snorted cocaine off your tits while you were having an epileptic seizure? Good times.”

12. Your ex places themselves into your orbit

Meaning they purposefully go to places and venues where they know you’ll be at. So if you keep seeing them wherever you go, it may be because they’re deliberately placing themselves there to make it easy for you to strike up a conversation and re-attract them.

13. Your ex makes non-accidental eye contact

Humans are wired to make eye contact with whatever they find interesting and are curious about. So if your ex keeps giving you glances or checking you out when you’re near them, or if they stare at you more than usual while you talk, they’re probably still interested. (2)

14. Your ex displays positive Social cues and body language

For instance, whenever you’re interacting in-person, they face toward you, lean in, smile a lot, laugh perhaps a bit too much at your jokes, lightly touch you, stand closer to you than usual, or keep their arms relaxed and at their sides, gesturing with open palms.

15. Your ex ditches their friends for you

Meaning they cancel their plans and leave their friends behind so they can spend more time with you. This is often a difficult thing to do, so consider it a huge sign they’ll come back.

16. Your ex stays in touch with your family

Always consider context here. If they don’t have any good reasons to stay in touch, it’s probably a good sign. But if they’re simply close with your family, it probably means nothing. They just care about them, that’s all.

17. Your ex stays in touch with your friends and asks about you

For example, they ask them about what you’re doing, how you’re feeling, what’s going on in your life, if you miss them, still love them, and whether or not you ever talk about them, or at least mention them.

18. Your ex defends you

For example, they take your side when people are talking shit about you. Or perhaps they get into physical altercations with those wanting to do you harm.

19. Your ex blocks and unblocks you

Normally, these block-unblock gestures are simply made out of kindness or confusion, so I wouldn’t think much about them. But if your ex keeps blocking and unblocking you — perhaps week-in, week-out — then that’s a good sign of interest.

20. Your ex keeps making social media posts related to you

For instance, they’re splattering their profiles with cringeworthy inspirational quotes, sayings about relationships, empowerment, independence, breakup motivational fluff, or posts directly addressing you.

21. Your ex tries to make you jealous

Maybe they start posting pictures with attractive people of the opposite sex on social media. Maybe they share updates about how much they’re dating. Or perhaps they start bragging to their friends about how great they’re doing and how much fun they’re having, hoping the news eventually reaches you.

22. Your ex gets jealous when they find out you’re dating other people

A dead giveaway. If they didn’t have feelings for you, they couldn’t care less about your love life. An offshoot of this sign is when they try to sabotage your new romantic or potential romantic relationships.

23. Your ex keeps or shows off something that was yours or that you have given them

This is most commonly a piece of clothing, jewelry, or a random trifle you gave them. Think of it as a comfort object. That is, an item used to provide your ex with psychological comfort while you aren’t there with them. (5)

24. Your ex is second-guessing the breakup

We all second-guess our breakups. So it’s normal if your ex does it from time to time, and it doesn’t mean anything. But if they keep second-guessing to a point where it becomes a borderline obsession, it’s a sign they’ll eventually come back.

25. Your breakup was never official

If your ex never told anyone that they broke up with you, it could indicate that they’ll return. But then again, they may be just embarrassed about sharing the news (which is typical for teens and young adults).

26. You had an on/off relationship with your ex

This is a relationship where two people continually break up and get back together. And while cultivating such a relationship does mean your ex will eventually come back, as is the typical pattern, it is a pretty toxic dynamic to get caught up in. So I suggest you eventually end things for good.

27. You broke up in the heat of the moment

Sometimes emotions make us say and do things we didn’t really want to say and do. One of which is ending our relationship prematurely or unintentionally getting our ex so riled up that they end it. People usually get back together relatively quickly after such mishaps.

28. Your ex talks about a future with you

For example, they bring up cool date ideas, plans about trips you’d go on in the future, or even more serious stuff like buying a pet someday, getting married, having kids, or settling down. All solid signs you still have a chance of mending things.

29. Your ex expresses pride about your achievements and growth

Meaning they congratulate and compliment you often. The more, the merrier. However, note that if it’s been a long time since your breakup, this could just be a polite gesture devoid of any romantic interest.

30. Your Ex Watches All Your Stories

Your ex watches all your stories but never comments or reaches out. Look, everyone watches stories — it’s passive scrolling. This alone means almost nothing. But if they’re consistently watching everything you post AND showing other signs like reaching out or commenting, then yeah, it could indicate lingering interest.

31. Your Ex Refuses to Return Your Stuff (Or Delays It)

Holding onto your belongings is a way to maintain connection and have an excuse to see you later. The longer they keep your stuff, the more likely they’re not ready to let go completely.

32. Your Ex Suggests “Staying Friends” Repeatedly

If they keep bringing this up or can’t accept that you don’t want friendship, it’s often because they want to keep you in their life while figuring out if they want you back. True “let’s be friends” acceptance doesn’t require convincing.

33. Your Ex Compares New Dates to You

If you hear through mutual friends that they’re saying things like “They’re nice but…” or “It’s not the same as with [your name],” that’s a massive sign they’re not over you and measuring everyone against you.

34. Your Ex Opens Up About Their Struggles/Vulnerabilities

When they share deep personal problems, fears, or insecurities with you post-breakup, they’re treating you like an intimate partner, not an ex. This emotional reliance suggests they still see you as their person.

35. Your Ex Mirrors Your Life Changes

They suddenly start going to the gym after you post workout pics. They get into the same hobby you mentioned. They change their style similar to yours. This mirroring behavior shows they’re paying very close attention and possibly trying to become more compatible.

36. Your Ex Becomes Overly Defensive When Asked About You

If mutual friends report that your ex gets weird, defensive, or overly emotional when your name comes up in conversation, it shows they’re not over you. Indifference is the opposite of love; strong reactions mean strong feelings remain.

37. Your Ex Changes Their Relationship Status But Won’t Remove Couple Photos

They mark themselves as “single” but keep pictures of you two together on their profile. This mixed signal often means they’re technically available but emotionally still attached to what you had.

38. Your Ex Asks “What If” Questions

“What if we had handled things differently?” or “Do you think we would’ve worked out if…” These hypotheticals show they’re mentally replaying the relationship and imagining alternative scenarios where you’re still together.

39. Your Ex Gets Upset About Your Growth/Success

Paradoxically, if they seem bothered or make snide comments about your improvements, it often means they’re threatened because you’re becoming the person they wish they had. It’s jealousy masked as criticism.

40. Your ex shows the painfully obvious

They’re all over you, keep touching you, keep being affectionate, buy you gifts, write you notes or poems, sprinkle many affectionate emojis through their texts, compliment you profusely, seek your approval and validation, tell you how much they love and miss you, ask you to meet up, or express how they want to get back together.

False Positives: Signs That Look Good But Actually Mean Nothing

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Here’s the part no one wants to hear — some behaviors that seem like your ex wants you back are actually just normal human decency, confusion, or worse, manipulation. Don’t fall for these traps:

1. Breadcrumbing: Low-Effort Sporadic Contact

Your ex sends occasional “hey” texts, likes your posts every few weeks, or drops a “thinking of you” message at 2am — but never follows through with actual plans or sustained conversation. This isn’t interest; it’s keeping you on the hook as a backup option while they explore other possibilities. Real interest looks like consistent effort and eagerness to spend time together, not random crumbs of attention.

What to do: Call them out or ignore completely. Say something like, “If you want to see me, let’s set a date. Otherwise, stop reaching out.” Most breadcrumbers will disappear immediately when you demand real effort.

2. Using You as Emotional Support While Dating Others

They call you when they’re sad, share their problems, seek your advice about life or even other relationships — but have zero interest in reconciliation. You’re being used as a therapist or emotional crutch, not considered as a romantic partner. This is especially common if they’re actively dating other people while leaning on you for support.

What to do: Set a boundary. “I can’t be your emotional support while we’re broken up. It’s too painful for me.” Then stop being available for these conversations.

3. Being Nice/Friendly After Months of Silence

It’s been 6+ months since the breakup and your ex suddenly reaches out being friendly, asking how you are, maybe suggesting coffee to “catch up.” This often isn’t romantic interest — it’s just mature closure, curiosity about what you’re up to, or them feeling guilty about how things ended. After enough time passes, the sharp edges of a breakup soften and people can interact without romantic feelings.

What to do: Pay attention to the type of questions they ask and their follow-through. If it’s all surface-level small talk with no flirting, jealousy, or attempts to see you repeatedly, it’s just friendliness.

4. Social Media Stalking Without Real Contact

They watch every single one of your stories, like your posts occasionally, maybe even comment something innocuous — but never actually reach out to have a real conversation or suggest meeting up. Everyone stalks their ex on social media. It’s passive curiosity, not active interest. Clicking on your story takes zero effort or courage.

What to do: Ignore it completely unless it’s paired with Tier 1 or Tier 2 signs. Social media activity alone means absolutely nothing.

5. “Maybe Someday” or “I Need More Time” on Repeat

They keep saying things like “I’m not ready right now, but maybe in the future” or “I just need more time to figure things out” — but months pass and nothing changes. This is a soft rejection. They’re keeping the door cracked open so they don’t have to feel like the bad guy, but they have no real intention of walking back through it.

What to do: Give them a deadline internally. If they’re still saying “maybe someday” after 2-3 months with no real progress, they mean “no.” Stop waiting around.

6. Drunk Texts Without Sober Follow-Up

The classic 2am “I miss you” text after they’ve been drinking — but the next day they either ignore it, apologize for it, or pretend it didn’t happen. Drunk words aren’t sober thoughts; they’re just inhibitions lowered. If your ex can’t express interest when they’re sober, the drunk confession means nothing.

What to do: Don’t respond emotionally to drunk texts. Wait until morning and if they don’t bring it up sober, neither should you.

7. Jealousy That Never Leads to Action

Your ex gets visibly upset when they find out you’re dating someone, makes passive-aggressive comments, or even says “I don’t like seeing you with other people” — but still won’t commit to trying again themselves. This is ego, not love. They don’t want you, but they also don’t want anyone else to have you.

What to do: Don’t take jealousy as a green light unless it’s paired with them actually asking to get back together. Jealousy without action is just possessiveness.

8. Keeping You Around “Just in Case”

They want to stay friends, keep talking regularly, maybe even hook up occasionally — but the moment you ask about getting back together, they backpedal with excuses. They like having you available for attention, sex, or emotional support without the commitment of a relationship. You’re the safety net while they date other people.

What to do: Cut them off completely. Say “I can’t do the friend thing while I still have feelings” and go no contact. If they truly want you romantically, they’ll come back properly. If not, you’re free to move on.

The Bottom Line on False Positives

Real interest looks like consistent effort, clear communication, and escalation toward spending time together. Everything else is noise. If you’re constantly trying to decode mixed signals, analyzing ambiguous behavior, or making excuses for why they’re not taking action — they’re not coming back. Stop torturing yourself with false hope and accept what their behavior is actually telling you.

When Do These Signs Typically Appear? The Timeline

Understanding when signs usually show up can help you calibrate your expectations and stop panicking when your ex doesn’t immediately reach out. Here’s what to expect:

Week 1-2: Radio Silence (Usually)

Right after a breakup, emotions are too raw for meaningful signs. Your ex is either relieved to be free or processing their own pain — either way, they’re unlikely to show genuine interest this early. If they do reach out, it’s often guilt, second-guessing in the heat of the moment, or panic rather than real desire to reconcile.

What you might see: Possible drunk texts, returning your stuff, or cold/distant responses if you contact them. Sometimes nothing at all.

What to do: Apply strict no contact. Don’t read into anything that happens in these first two weeks — emotions are too volatile to mean anything real.

Week 3-4: Breadcrumbing Might Start

This is when you might start seeing Tier 3-4 signs — they watch your stories, send a random “hey how are you” text, or like an old photo. The initial post-breakup fog is lifting and they’re starting to miss you or feel curious. But this isn’t serious interest yet; it’s testing the waters without commitment.

What you might see: Sporadic social media activity, vague check-ins, or them asking mutual friends about you.

What to do: Continue no contact. These signs aren’t strong enough to break radio silence. Let them sit with missing you longer.

Month 2-3: Real Interest Emerges

This is the sweet spot where most exes who are coming back start showing Tier 1-2 signs. According to my survey, 2.56 months is the average time for an ex to reach out. By now, they’ve had enough space to gain perspective, the initial relief of the breakup has worn off, and they’re starting to genuinely miss what you had together.

What you might see: Regular personal contact, wanting to meet up, asking about your dating life, or explicit statements about missing you and reconsidering the breakup.

What to do: If you’re seeing multiple Tier 1-2 signs, respond strategically. Suggest meeting in person, be warm but not desperate, and start moving toward reconciliation if that’s what you want.

Month 4-6: The Window Is Closing

If you haven’t seen any real signs by now, your odds are dropping significantly. Your ex is either moving on, in a new relationship, or has genuinely accepted the breakup. Some exes do come back after 6+ months, but it’s increasingly rare and often happens only if major life circumstances change.

What you might see: Either clear Tier 1-2 signs as they make a final push to reconnect, or absolutely nothing as they move on for good.

What to do: If nothing substantial has happened by month 4-6, start seriously accepting they’re not coming back. Focus on moving on yourself rather than waiting indefinitely.

Month 6+: Probably Not Coming Back

After half a year, reconciliation becomes statistically unlikely. If your ex does reach out at this point, it’s often nostalgia, loneliness after a failed rebound, or simple curiosity rather than genuine desire to rebuild the relationship. By now, both of you have changed significantly and the person you’re pining for may not even exist anymore.

What you might see: Random reach-outs after long silence, “what if” questions, or friendly catch-up attempts that lead nowhere.

What to do: Be skeptical. If someone couldn’t figure out they wanted you back in six months, question whether they actually want you or just want to avoid being alone. Proceed with extreme caution if at all.

The Exception: Years Later Contact

Sometimes exes reach out after years — usually due to major life events (breakup with someone else, moving back to town, nostalgia trigger) rather than genuine reconciliation interest. These contacts are almost always about them processing their own life rather than wanting you specifically back.

What to do: Ask yourself if you’re interested in who they are now, not who they were years ago. People change dramatically over years. Don’t romanticize the past.

Key Takeaway

Most exes who come back show real signs within 2-4 months. If you’re past that window seeing only weak signs or nothing at all, they’re probably not coming back. Use this timeline to reality-check your situation instead of waiting indefinitely for signs that will never come.

Why Obsessing Over The Signs Your Ex Will Come Back Sucks

As I alluded in the beginning of this article, it’s because it usually harms your emotional well-being and sabotages re-attraction.

Starting with well-being, it encourages panic and stress, and can even lead to rumination: a tendency to spend an inordinate amount of time worrying, figuring out, trying to understand, analyzing, or clarifying a breakup-related thought or theme.

Now this tendency brings us to re-attraction sabotage. Because it’s rumination that often leads to neediness. And it’s neediness that often leads to sabotaging behaviors.

Behaviors like:

• Spamming your ex’s phone.
• Begging them for another chance.
• Breaking the no contact rule.
• Showing up at their place unannounced.
• Sending them cheesy love letters.
• Overanalyzing their responses.
• Attempting to “game them.“
• Stalking them on social media.

You get the idea.

A Better Way Of Determining If Your Ex Will Come Back

Instead of holding onto your chances or the signs I listed earlier, shift your focus to something more important than getting your ex back. This something can be anything — fighting for a cause you believe in, following some life purpose, investing in another relationship, excelling in your career, etc.

The theory goes that once you find something more important and meaningful than your ex and shift your focus on it, you experience the following benefits:

• You preserve mental capacity that you can then direct to a more productive direction than obsessing over an ex. For example, getting your emotional baggage aired out, kicking ass at work, or figuring out what mistakes you’ve made in your last relationship and how to avoid repeating them.
• You become less reactive, needy, and desperate towards your ex and thus more attractive, often dramatically increasing the odds of getting your ex to miss you and reach out.
• You stop constantly getting lost in mental vomit, like when you keep asking yourself, “Will my ex come back,” “Do exes give second chances?” or “What are the chances my ex will eventually come back.”

Need I say more?

It sounds counterintuitive, but it’s only when you find something more important than your ex and hone in on it that you can curb your obsession and raise your chances of getting them back.

And if they don’t come back?

That’s fine.

Because now you have the space in your life for an even better person to take their place. And, although you might not believe me, there’s always a better person to take your ex’s place.

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