82% of People Trying to Get Their Ex Back Fail Spectacularly

Here’s what the 18% who succeed actually do differently (and why most “ex-back” advice is manipulative garbage).

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If you’re on this page looking for a quick and easy way to get back with your ex, click away. Re-attraction doesn’t have such solutions — and whoever tells you otherwise is selling you bullshit.

According to a survey of 4534 participants, aged 18 to 55, I conducted between January 2023 and April 2024, only 32% of exes get back together. Of these, roughly 18% have stayed together for over a year after reconciling.

The math is brutal. But here’s what separates the 18% who succeed from the 82% who fail spectacularly.

Most people approach getting their ex back backwards. They focus on tactics instead of transformation. They try to perform their way back into someone’s heart instead of addressing why that person left in the first place.

They chase. They beg. They post thirst traps on Instagram. They follow rigid “no contact” timelines like religious doctrine. They send pre-written text messages designed to “trigger” responses.

This is performance-based re-attraction. And it fails because it’s built on a lie.

The lie that you’re not good enough as you are. That you need tricks, games, and manipulation to be worthy of love. That if you just follow the right script, you can force someone to want you again.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: your ex didn’t leave because you used the wrong words or did something stupid once. They left because of deeper patterns and dynamics that made the relationship unsustainable — they left you because of your identity.

Maybe you were needy and clingy, seeking constant validation. Maybe you wanted different things in life. Maybe you were emotionally unavailable, running from intimacy whenever things got real. Maybe you had incompatible attachment styles that created a toxic push-pull dynamic.

Whatever it was, no amount of clever texting is going to fix it.

What Actually Works

Real re-attraction happens through what I call radical authenticity. Instead of performing, you become genuinely attractive again by:

• Identifying and healing your actual attachment wounds — not just surface-level “confidence” work.
• Taking full responsibility for your role in the relationship’s failure — without blame or victim narratives.
• Developing emotional regulation — so you can interact with your ex from a place of calm strength, not desperate need.
• Building a life so compelling that getting them back becomes optional — which paradoxically makes you more attractive.
• Communicating with vulnerable honesty — expressing your growth and intentions without manipulation or agenda.

This isn’t about becoming perfect. It’s about becoming real. And real is what creates lasting attraction.

The Radical Re-Attraction Course will teach you this approach, step-by-step.

But…

A fair warning

This process will hurt.

• You’ll have to look honestly at yourself and the ways you contributed to the relationship’s failure.
• You’ll need to change patterns you’ve carried for years, maybe decades.
• You’ll have to risk genuine rejection — not just the surface rejection of your performance, but the deeper rejection of who you actually are.
• And more…

Most people aren’t ready for this level of honesty. That’s why 82% fail.

If you want quick fixes, manipulation tactics, or someone to tell you that your ex is the problem — this course isn’t for you.

But if you’re ready to do the real work of becoming genuinely attractive again, regardless of whether your ex comes back or not, then keep reading.

What makes this course different

Three things:

1. It’s based on reality and results, not fantasy. I’ve spent 5+ years helping people navigate reconciliation successfully, and I’ve learned what works, what doesn’t, and what fails spectacularly.
2. Its focus is on action, not passive learning. No long videos that you’re never gonna finish. No generic coursework. Just brief bursts of theory followed by a a ton of practical advice, exercises, prompts, goals, and more.
3. Its focus isn’t on tricks, games, or fake behavior, but on real, lasting transformation. Because it’s not about acting attractive that gets your ex back; it’s about actually becoming attractive that gets them back.

If you’re ready to grow remarkably attractive and maximize the odds of getting back with your ex, here’s exactly what you’ll learn…

What You’ll Discover In This Course

• Your true odds of reconciliation and what your ex is really thinking right now.
• How to overcome inferiority, insecurity, and neediness + spawn remarkable confidence.
• The critical framework for understanding why your relationship failed — from both perspectives.
• How to free yourself from the toxic cycle of overwhelm, rumination, regret, sadness, and so on.
• How to get past your breakup pain and start approaching re-attraction in a calmer, more level-headed way.
• Common mistakes and pitfalls that will lower the odds of mending your relationship (and ways of avoiding them).
• A definitive guide to the no contact rule: when to use it, what to avoid with it, and how to maintain it.
• How to identify signals of interest, indicating how your ex feels about you, and respond effectively to mixed signals.
• Handling curveballs like when your ex ignores, ghosts, goes cold, blocks, friendzones, tests you, asks for help, etc.
• Step-by-step strategies for rebuilding natural conversations without awkwardness or anxiety.
• The best practices for handling calls, texts, and social media.
• How to transition from digital interaction to meaningful in-person dates.
• How to have fun and memorable dates that build sexual tension and emotional depth.
• When and how to artfully go for the touch, the kiss, and escalate things sexually.
• How to transition from casually dating to a healthy, committed relationship that lasts.
• And much more…

The Radical Re-Attraction Course is a series of short, actionable video lessons with hand-edited article-like transcriptions underneath each, as well as a plethora of downloads, prompts, goals, and practical exercises to help you further implement what you’ve learned.

Backed By A 60-Day Money-Back Guarantee

To make this deal a no-brainer, I’m also giving you a 60-day 100% money-back guarantee.

So if you’re unhappy with the course for whatever reason, or you simply change your mind within 60 days of registration, email me, and I’ll refund you your money. No questions asked.

What Others Are Saying

Following this course has brought me to a better mind state than I would be without it. For me, the course is like having strong scaffolding while you work on yourself and more importantly getting yourself levelled up, and be better than you once were. — Simon G.

About 2 weeks later he brought up the “I miss you” thing again. Then he said, “I want to date you again.” I’ve been thinking about what we were and what we had and said that I’d like to date as well. He agreed. We became exclusive shortly after. (Update: Rita got back with her ex). — Rita S.

I’m slowly getting through the course, and while I did break no contact a week ago, I got my ex to say “yes” to a date with me. She constantly keep reaching out, which is also great. Working on my neediness really helped turn my situation around. (Update: Jake also got his ex back). — Jake T.

I was skeptical at first, but this course completely changed my approach. Instead of chasing and being desperate, I focused on becoming the person my ex fell for in the first place. Three months later, she reached out wanting to talk. — Marcus D.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: My Situation Is Unique. Will This Course Still Help?

Yes. The course includes specific lessons and guidance for special circumstances like infidelity, shared children, living together, rebounds, long-distance, first-loves, mixed signals, situationships, etc.

Q: Other Ex-Back Programs Didn’t Work For Me, How Will I Know This One Will?

Because most programs are all talk, no action. They dump information on you and expect you to figure it out. That’s not what I do with this course. You won’t be sitting around consuming — you’ll be out there doing. If you show up and take action, you will get results. Period.

Q: What If I Already Know What I Need To Do To Mend My Relationship?

Then why aren’t you doing it? Knowledge isn’t the problem. Execution is. This course was specifically designed to get you into action — simple, achievable action — so you can accomplish exponentially more than you ever thought possible without overwhelm, overthinking, or information overload.

Q: How Is This Course Different From Your Book, ‘From The Inside Out’?

The course covers the same themes as the book, but is far more practical. It’s essentially a masterclass in hands-on implementation of successful re-attraction, offering a plethora of actionable prompts, goals, and exercises, ranging from quick 3-minute drills to 30-minute deep dives.

Q: Is My Payment Secure And Can I Get A Refund?

A: Yes and yes. I use fully secure payment processing (SSL), and you’re backed by a no-questions-asked 60-day money-back guarantee. If you’re unhappy with the course for any reason, just email me for an immediate refund.