How To Be More Interesting When Dating Post-Breakup

As part of my newsletter, The Breakthrough Letter, every week I send out a short email with one idea, one suggestion, and one resource to help you break through your breakup and create a new possibility for love, either with your ex or someone new.

Here’s this week’s edition. Enjoy.

Today’s Idea:

To be interesting means being more attractive. And to be more attractive means higher odds of attracting new love or re-attracting an ex.

So despite how you currently feel due to your heartbreak, finding a way to be more interesting is pretty damn important. In fact, working on being more interesting is said to improve not only one’s attractiveness but also one’s mental health. So working on being more attractive should actually make you feel happier and more at peace.

Just note that this doesn’t mean you need to completely transform yourself or become someone you’re not. No, no, no… Being more interesting simply means cultivating a distinct blend of intriguing hobbies, passions, opinions, and desires. It’s more about developing simple character than anything else.

Today’s Suggestion:

Either on a piece of paper or by talking to yourself, list at least three ways you can enrich your distinct blend of hobbies, passions, opinions, and desires.

Would it be useful or cool to try a new experience or activity? Should you double down on a desire? Should you let go of some hobby or passion that’s maybe holding you back or that just got plain boring? Could you perhaps make a particular opinion you hold more convincing? Or maybe trade one that’s faulty for a more accurate one?

Once your list is done, follow what you wrote for a week or two and see how it feels. Just note that this shouldn’t feel like homework. Becoming more interesting must be fun. It has to feel like play. And you ought to do it because you want to, not because some idiot on the internet told you to.

Today’s Resource:

How To (Realistically) Find Yourself After A Breakup — a solid approach to becoming more interesting; through figuring out what you actually care about and what you stand for. Enjoy the read.

As always, feel free to reply to this email and let me know what you think. I’ll do my best to get back to you promptly.

Until next time,
Max Jancar

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