The Smart Person’s No-Bullshit Guide To Lasting Reconciliation

From The Inside Out is a 200+ page book that shows you how to get back with an ex through honesty and staying true to yourself. That, and how to actually keep your relationship intact and healthy for the long haul.

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From The Inside Out: A Counterintuitive Approach To Re-Attracting An Ex

A definitive ex-back guide that breaks through the noise to give a practical, no-nonsense view of what it means to be a healthy, attractive person capable of mending their relationship.

Its principles are timeless. Its truths are backed by decades of psychological research. Its focus is on the philosophical process of personal growth and the emotional process of re-attraction.

Devoid of tricks, tactics, games, techniques, and fake behavior — this is the most mature and honest guide on how to re-attract an ex out there.

Stop acting attractive and be attractive.

What’s Covered In The Book

Part 1: Truth And Pain

• Reconciliation realities: how often exes get back together.
• Reasons why people break up: and why most never rekindle things.
• Ex-back paradoxes: like how getting yourself back is actually the best way to get your ex back.

Part 2: Emotional Health And Esteem

• Attractive vs. unattractive traits: what behaviors and mindsets make a person attractive, and which make them unattractive.
• Authentic re-attraction: how to become remarkably attractive without gameplay, fake behaviors, gimmicks, or tricks.
• Outcome independence: how to not be dependent on your ex’s validation, presence, opinions, thoughts, etc.

Part 3: Understanding And Stability

• Attachment and compatibility: how to leverage these to figure out if your ex is even the right person for you.
• Healing and growth: how to feel like yourself again, manage your emotions and hurt, and develop proper self-care habits.
• Balance and security: how to approach re-attraction with little-to-no panic or desperation.

Part 4: Identity And Lifestyle

• Values and purpose: how to find yourself after a breakup and start living the life you always wanted.
• Better habits: how to build good post-breakup habits and break (or avoid) the bad ones.
• Boundaries and character: how to confidently stand up for yourself and be a more engaging, interesting person.

Part 5: First Steps And Mental Shifts

• Proper date setting: how to set a date with your ex at the right time and maximize the chances of them showing up.
• The no contact rule: how and why it works, its psychology, how to implement and maintain it, etc.
• Clarity and realism: how to stay realistic during re-attraction and accurately gauge your ex’s level of interest every step of the way.

Part 6: Dating And Escalating

• Everything-dating: how to plan a memorable and fun date and execute it with minimal stress and ex-back mistakes.
• Emotional escalation: the different ways to reconnect and rebuild intimacy, trust, and respect with your ex.
• Physical escalation: how to artfully progress from simple banter and flirting to touching, kissing, and sex.

Part 7: Re-Commitment And Termination

• Re-commitment dilemma: how to know whether re-commiting to your ex (and vice versa) is the right choice.
• The big transition: when and how to go from casually dating your ex to getting into a committed relationship with them.
• Quitting re-attraction: how to know when it’s time to stop trying to mend things and move on instead.

The Book Also Includes…

1. Tips For Troubleshooting Common Ex-Back Curveballs

Learn how to navigate and overcome problems like when your ex is already dating someone else, rejecting you, ghosting or ignoring you, blocking or unblocking you, giving you mixed signals, trying to friendzone you, asking for your help, wanting to support you through the breakup, and more.

2. Advice For Handling Re-Attraction In Special Situations

For example, long-distance, infidelity, long-past breakups, cohabitation, shared kids or pets, marriage, rebound relationships, casual/committed relationships, roommates relationships, on/off relationships, situationships, first loves, etc.

3. Frequently Asked Ex-Back Questions And My Answers

A section where I answer all of the most commonly asked ex-back questions that I have received over the five years since I started helping people with re-attraction (and breakups in general).

What Readers Are Saying

Dude, if I only read this book a few months earlier, I would’ve dodged so much drama and headaches with my ex, lol. — Vika I.

Having followed Max’s stuff for months now, I was unsure if ‘From The Inside Out’ would offer any new insights on getting back with an ex. However, I was pleasantly surprised. The book goes beyond his blog content, providing some really valuable information I just haven’t seen covered anywhere else in general. — Siddartha J.

This book is a game-changer! It goes beyond the surface-level stuff and really dives deep into the psyche of one’s mind and personal growth — and then ties everything to re-attraction. Really good, practical stuff. A must-read for anyone looking to get back with their ex in a way that’s actually healthy. — Harold H.

I just finished the book this morning and wanted to say that it was probably one of the best ones I found till now on the whole ex-back topic. Truly a superior work compared to the other crap that permeates the market. — Sam A.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Can I Ask For My Money Back If I Don’t Like The Book?

Yes. For digital purchases, email me within 30 days of your purchase for a full refund — no questions asked. For physical books: email me within 30 days of receiving your book for a full refund.

Q: What Formats Is The Digital Version Of The Book In?

The ebook version comes in PDF, Kindle, and Apple Books formats. The audiobook comes in both a single MP3 file and a folder of multiple MP3 files, one for each chapter.

Q: Is This Book All-Inclusive?

Yes. Whether you’re young or old, male or female, straight or part of the LGBTQ, this book is suitable for you. I made it relevant for virtually every sexual orientation, age group, and gender out there.